I feel bad for her and I suspect she's lonely and doesn't have a friend or loved one to share her troubles with. Still, at some point you need to tone it down, and perhaps change the subject. This is one place where Urban and I agree. Please stop posting updates that express an emotional event but provide no specifics whatsoever. A former friend of mine used to regularly post things like this: "Sometimes when you find out what people really are like you just feel like giving up.
This seemed to be a very effective tactic for her because her vague lament would invariably garner some equally vague expressions of support. Posts like these are emotionally manipulative and unfair and you can wear out your welcome fast. Either be at least somewhat specific or keep it to yourself. Anything you post to Facebook should be posted by you. That sounds obvious, but it can be difficult to do because so many apps in are eager to post to Facebook on your behalf and they try hard to wheedle your permission to do so.
If you blog, your blogging software will want to auto-post to Facebook. If you play any kind of game that anyone else on Facebook plays, that game will relentlessly nag you for permission to post your accomplishment to Facebook every time you complete a level.
If you listen to music, your music playing app will want to tell your Facebook friends what's on your playlist. This makes perfect sense from the apps' point of view because whenever they get permission to post something on your timeline, you've provided them with free advertising and what appears to be your personal endorsement.
Liking the Facebook page of a business or individual has the same effect, because now that person or company's every promotional post will appear in your news feed. In both cases, you're allowing people other than yourself to post whatever they like where all your friends will see it.
Think very carefully before you give anyone that kind of power. What is engagement bait? A post whose main purpose seems to be to encourage your Facebook friends to share it, like it, comment on it, or tag it. What other Facebook or Twitter updates bug you? Need a Break-Up Excuse? Sick of all those annoying ads in the comments section lately? So are we! We police the site regularly and delete spam as soon as we can, but recently, the volume of spam has increased dramatically.
We're working on a way to block them permanently, so please bear with us, and know that we're as eager as you are to get rid of these pests.
Meanwhile, please continue to use the Report Abuse button to flag spam--it really does help! If you have any urgent questions about the spam, please contact us.
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